Everyone!
That is the simple answer. Non Piercing Body Jewelry is like other mainstream jewelry styles - how you wear it, and what you wear it with, determines how other people see it. A simple, medium-sized cross necklace is the perfect example: if you dress demurely, the cross will look innocent; but that same cross can look devilish if worn with a goth outfit; put it on a rapper, or a nun, or even Mr T, and it has a different look each time.

  *  Our jewelry can be worn everyday, by anyone - try a Clit Caresser at work, no one has to know ;) or a Neck to Nipple Chain disappearing into your blouse.
  *  Our styles are also popular at nudist & naturist events, where you can wear Earrings that match your Nipple Rings, or a Choker to match your Cock Circlet.
  *  At a swingers party, the extra movement of dancing & playing makes the dangles & chains on our designs extra exciting.
  *  Exotic dancers & entertainers love the catchy sparkle from our crystals, and the sensuous sway of the chains.
  *  In the bedroom, our jewelry is a beautiful way to dress up your lingerie or your birthday suit, as well as a fun, delightful way to spice up the night!
 

Most of our jewelry can be worn during sex.  The Penis Rings by Ring That Thing can only be worn during sex if you have purchased one sized specifically for wear when you are fully erect. 

As with anything new, take the time to become familiar & comfortable with how it works & feels and you are sure to enjoy it everytime.   

From the Arabesque designers:
"Our Clit Caresser and Cock Circlets can be worn during sex.  Depending on the position and activity level, the Caresser may become dislodged but we find that by that time you usually are too involved to notice or you can stop and reinstall it (not necessarily a bad thing). The Cock Circlet can also be worn during sex but [depending on how tight you wear it] you will find that a woman who has done her Kiegels can strip it off of your penis and hold it inside her allowing you to do her through the ring. [If the Circlet is worn around the shaft and the scrotum, she is less likely to be able to hold on to it]  You may have to retreve it later or if you purchase two circlets and a leash to connect them you will always be able to pull it out as you withdraw, you will want to do this slowly as she will still have a grip on the front ring. The leash (mine is set with Hematite beads) acts like the japanese love beads moving in and out with every stroke and the front Cock Circlet hits her "G" spot on every back stroke.
Remember everything we make is pure Sterling Silver so unlike the rubber cock rings our Cock Circlets have no elastic qualities.  [If] you size them so that they will stay on comfortably when flaccid, as you become erect it will start to become more restricting, helping to maintain an erection.
As far as wearing the caresser during intercourse, we have designed it to end just at the bottom of the clitoral legs, so that access to the vagina is not impeded. You should check that the dangles are not caught or pulled inside. In other words, yes, by all means it can be worn, but please, apply the same common sense you would use with any other play toy (make sure it is comfy, etc.). We have found that rear entry positions work well."
 

How do I order your jewelry?

As you are browsing our products, each page has an order button. Simply the items you want - choosing the style and color you prefer, and add them your cart. When you are done shopping, use our secure checkout system to submit your order. Our system is completely secure - the number goes straight to the banks for authorization, it is not processed by us. Our shopping cart also allows you to pay with your Google Checkout account or through PayPal.

If you prefer not to make a purchase on the internet, you can also print and fill out an order form, and fax it to (208) 788-8098.  Or mail it to:

     HVNLY NIGHTS
     PO Box 4018
     Hailey, ID  83333
     USA

Do NOT send your credit card info to us in an e-mail, or split into several e-mails. If a hacker is going to steal our e-mail, he isn't going to stop with just one, or a few - he will take them all. And if we can piece together your number, so can any hacker.

What is a Card/CVV2 Code, and where do I find it?

Can you please be discrete about the order?

While we personally do not think our jewelry, or any sexual subject, should be an embarassing or uncomfortable matter, we do realize that society has trained us to be less open about our more personal lives, and we fully respect your privacy.

We will not call you unless you specifically ask us to, either through an email or fax request or in a voice mail message.  If we call and you are unavailable, we rarely leave a message.  Only if you have been working closely with someone, might he/she leave their name and phone number, not a company name.

All of our orders are shipped in a basic Priority Mail box picked up from the post office.  We use a computer generated or plain handwritten shipping label, as per postal regulations, and there will be an insurance stamp or sticker.  Other than that, it will look just like thousands ofother boxes that go through the postal system.

If someone does notice that you have received some sort of mail order, you can tell your nosy inquisitor that you bought some aromatherapy scents to help you sleep, or you have found a nice place to get lacy pillow cases.

How long does it take to make the jewelry?

Each item is hand craft with the utmost care and precision when you order them to ensure the highest quality possible.  It takes about 2 to 3 weeks for your jewelry to be made; for the very busy holiday seasons (ie Christmas & Valentine's Day), it will take a full 3 weeks for your jewelry to be completed.  If you need something sooner, please browse our list of In Stock items to see what we have available for immediate shipping.

The shipping time depends on the method you have chosen.  Standard shipping takes, on average, 2 to 3 weeks to arrive.  This is the lowest priority of mailing methods, so during busy seasons it can get held up in customs and take a little longer than 3 weeks for delivery.  Expedited shipping take about 7 to 10 days to arrive.  With the faster shipping method comes a private customs broker, who ensures faster customs clearance.  We have only experienced a couple serious delays with Expedited shipping getting through customs, and those were in the months after 9/11. 

In Stock items are shipped via Priority Mail from our store in the US, and usually arrive within 2 to 4 days.

How early should I order if I need the jewelry for a gift/special event?

We suggest ordering on or before Nov. 12 for standard Christmas orders; on or before Nov. 23 for standard Christmas orders shipped Expedited.  This will allow for any delays in customs, or backup in production. 

We suggest ordering on or before Jan. 1 for standard Valentine's order; on or before Jan. 11 for standard Valentine's orders shipped Expedited.  This will allow for any delays in customs, or backup in production. 

For standard orders placed for other occassions or events, we suggest ordering 6 weeks in advance.  Items which have special order designs, or a design you created, typically take an extra 2 weeks.  Faster shipping, and Rush Order processing are available, but you need to let us know that you are on a deadline when you place your order, so we can make arangements.

We keep some of the most commonly ordered items on hand for immediate shipping.  These items are by the same designers and are of the same quality, we just had them made in advance to have on hand.  In Stock jewelry can be ordered at any time, and ships via Priority Mail within 48hours of receiving payment (Overnight shipping is available).  If you are looking for a last minute gift, or prefer not to wait, you can see a list of the items we have In Stock.

It takes 2 to 3 weeks to make an order of jewelry, plus shipping time.  If you are pressed for time, e-mail us about adding a Rush to your order.  Adding Rush service to your order cuts the design time down to 1 week, however because of time constraints, our jewelers can only accept 2 Rush Orders per week; e-mail us as soon as possible if you need this option. 

Standard shipping is 2 to 3 weeks, Expedited shipping takes 7-10 days.  Most items are coming in from Canada, so while arrival dates are usually pretty reliable, packages sometimes get delayed in customs.  If your deadline is non-negotiable, you might want to choose the faster shipping method.

How often do you have sales or promotions/When will you post new specials?

To help promote a new item or design, we may offer a discount for items that include that new feature, although this type of sale is rare compared to how often we bring in new items. 

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I purchased a pair of nipple rings, but they are too hard to put on.  Do you have string-and-slider type nipple jewelry?

It is best to adjust your jewelry before you put it on.  Sterling silver will "spring back" a little bit when you bend it, so you will actually be squeezing it a bit tighter than you need as you adjust it.  You don't want to have sensitive skin in the way as you do this.
If the ring won't stay on, take it off and make a little smaller before putting it back on.
If the ring seems too tight, or the nipple just won't go through, loosen the ring before you put it on.  You can squeeze it a little bit while it's on to make it fit a little tighter.  **Note: please "squeeze it a little bit" while you are wearing it.  If you tighten it too much while it is on, it could hurt - a lot.

If you are still having troubles putting on your nipple rings, you may have nipples that are inverted, flat, or just don't stay erect on their own very well.  Don't worry, this is not at all abnormal.  It may not be the current "fad", but it is certainly not strange - lots of people, both men and women, have flat or inverted nipples.
You can train your nipples stay erect with Nipple Clips.  Nipple Clips slide onto the nipple, similarly to a hair pin, and grip your nipple.  While the rings stay on by hugging your already stiff nipple, clips actually hold the nipple out.  And, as with all of our jewelry, it is non piercing and not painful.  If it hurts or pinches, simply take it off, adjust the clip, and re-install it.

As for string-and-slider type (noose-style) nipple jewelry:  no, we do not carry, promote, or suggest wearing this type of jewelry.  We have tested several different brands of nipple jewelry like this, and quite frankly, we wonder if they are actually intended to be a torture device.  In all of the ones we have tried, the loop does not maintain it's own tension.  It slides open quickly so that it has to put back on frequently (more frequently than what is fun, it's actually rather irritating), and if it catches on something, the loop can be pulled tighter and hurts.  In one case, the fine cord actually left a very small cut on our tester's nipple.
We are still looking for other styles of nipple rings for customers who may prefer a less costly piece of jewelry.  If you come across one that you think works well and is high quality, send us a sample and we'll test it out.

 

How do I clean my new jewelry?

For full jewelry care instructions and products, see our Care Guide page.

To remove regular grime and dirt, use a gentle soap and warm water, especially if you wear it during sex.

For a quick clean that gets into all the little crevises, a jewelry bath (liquid cleaner) works well.  Make sure you read the instructions so you get one that is safe on all of the components in the piece (some gemstones require special cleaners).  For a thorough shine and polish, you will want to use a silver polishing cloth.  Be careful not to pull on the chains when you polish by hand, or they may stretch, flatten or break.

When using any type of polishing agent, be sure to read all of the directions that come with it.  Most polishes and cleaners need to be rinsed off when you are done, so they don't leave a residue on your jewelry that can irritate the skin or become hard and rough.

You can help prevent tarnish by keeping your jewelry in an airtight zip-lock bag or an anti-tarnish jewelry box or pouch.

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Can I get jewelry made with a stone type/dangle style that is not listed on your site?

We can accomodate requests for pretty much any stone type, crystal color, or shape, in any design you can think up.  Please inquire about pricing for special orders, and we'll do everything we can to help you get what you want.

Another popular idea is to have items you already own incorporated into custom jewelry.  Heirloom stones or a special item from a loved one are popular for custom-designed pieces.  Earrings are paired perfectly for Nipple Dangles; pendants work beautifully on chains; pins & broaches can be modified to be a centerpiece.  Check out some examples of past customers' special requests.

 

Can I get any of the styles in gold?  What about gold tone or gold plated?

Most of our designs by Arabesque are now available by special order in 14k and 18k gold.  Most items not listed on our Prices page can also be made as a custom order.  All of our gold jewelry is pure gold, so while it is more expensive than gold-plated or gold-toned, it is also of a much higher quality.

When a product is advertised as "Gold Tone" or "Silver Tone" it means that there is a thin coating of some kind (brass or nickel) over an inexpensive base metal (iron etc.).  Adjusting the fit of the jewelry will cause the coating to crack, and  flake or wear away.  When the base metals are exposed, they can cause reactions on the sensitive skin of intimate areas, even in people who are not usually sensitive to them. 

"Gold Plated" or "Electroplating" is just that - a thin plating of real gold over a base metal.  Eventually the plating does wear off, leaving the base metal exposed to cause a reaction. This is a very unpleasant experience for jewelry worn in intimate areas.

 

I purchased a piece of jewelry already.  Now I would like to purchase another item to match.

There will always be slight variances in the jewelry due to the natural traits of gemstones and handcrafted items.  If you want as close to exact matches as possible, we recommend that you have any matching items made at the same time so all the stones can be compared against each other. 

If the cost of purchasing several items at once is prohibitive for you, or if you get a sudden inspiration after you have received your first pieces, we will certainly make the new item(s) for you, and the they will be a very close match to what you have.  Because of the level of quality maintained, you do not have to worry the items looking like they are from different sets.

If you had something custom made for you - special stones, unique dangles, etc - you may want to consider sending in the original piece, or a very good picture of it, so the closest exact match can be found.

Do you make piercing jewlery also/Can your jewelry be made for piercings?

We do not carry any type of piercing jewelry at the moment, however many of our Arabesque designs can made with lobster claw clasps or extra large jump rings, so the chains and dangles can be detached and worn on your piercing jewelry.  

A lot of our jewelry can be worn with your current piercing jewelry. 

• Nipple Rings & Nipple Shields can be worn behind your piercing jewelry.  Nipple Dangles and Nipple Chains make a particularly striking statement.  Nipple Rings can also be worn on your capture bead rings like a charm.
  
• Pussy Dangles, Belly Brilliants, and Body Rings can placed pretty much anywhere, so they can easily be worn in an area that does not interfere with your current jewelry.
  
• Clit Caressers can be worn behind most clit piercings.  Just remember that the vibrations from the dangles can be sent through your piercing ring.  It can be an extremely intense sensation!
  
• If you have any penis piercings, please be careful when putting on non-piercing jewelry so they don't catch on each other.  Leashes have a small lobster claw so they are removable, but this claw is often too small for most piercing rings.  You can get a larger O-ring to slip onto your piercing and attach the lobster claw to that.

Also, with a just a little twist from a pair of tweezers or needle-nose pliers, you can fit the dangles from our jewelry onto your own.  Just open the connector ring to take the dangle off our jewelry, and slide it onto your body jewelry before putting on your bead.  They are little O-rings, so you may need to get larger ones to accomodate larger gauges of body jewelry.

**PLEASE NOTE** 

any modification of our jewelry by anyone other than the designers, voids any warranty or guarantee of performance (written or implied)

When you alter our jewelry, as with any piercing jewelry, please use common sense.  If dangles or chains are tugged too hard while you are wearing them with non-piercing rings, they will simply come partially or completely off.  If they are tugged too hard while they are attached to a piercing ring, you may bruise or tear the skin.

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